Talking with Toni is easy and I feel like I can share my honest thoughts and struggles with her, no matter how embarrassing my habits may be. I know I won’t be judged, but rather will be heard and encouraged to chart a new path and supported as I take steps to do so. She strikes a perfect balance between listening, reflecting, inquiring, and advising. I appreciated that she gives clear, directed advice and suggestions. She helped me see opportunities for change that I never thought of, which was exactly what I was hoping for. I highly recommend her services.”

Her incredible kindness, inspiration, compassion, and empathy make her an amazing mentor, coach, cheerleader, and confidante to have in your corner. With her guidance and unwavering support, you can unlock your fullest potential! Our sessions together always left me feeling safe, understood, and energized. During our session together, I experienced several “aha moments,” gaining newfound clarity on my next steps. Toni’s honesty, attentiveness, keen observations, and creative problem-solving offer invaluable insights, helping me see beyond challenges and discover endless possibilities. With newfound confidence, I took action and witnessed tangible results in less than a week!"

“As someone who’s known Toni for years, the first descriptor that comes to mind is “empowering”. In the face of obstacle after obstacle, I’ve watched Toni refuse to be held back and refuse to let others determine her path. With so many others struggling to find their ways against societal, cultural, and family expectations, we need more people like Toni to act as a stabilizing force and help us find our inner compass. It’s easier to justify the status quo and talk ourselves out of change. For some people, that’s fine. But for those who need to break past that, a partner like Toni on your side makes all the difference in the world."

As a neurodivergent, highly sensitive, nerdy, overweight, anxious, people-pleaser, I had always struggled with belonging and twisted myself to fit in with my family.

It wasn't until I hit rock bottom in my 30s that I realized I couldn't keep that up anymore.

It was extremely brutal going from A+ Ivy League doctor to a "loser" & "failure" in my family's eyes, even to this day.

But it has been so worth it. Being able to finally be my true self & break our ancestral intergenerational trauma cycle.

I'm now here to pass on my lessons as a nomadic spiritual teacher, cartoonist, and holistic healer. I hope to empower you to break free too and honor who you were truly meant to be.

Step 1: Awareness – Recognize the toxic patterns keeping you stuck

Take a free quiz, read my book, attend a workshop, or join the Transcend The Tiger™ program to start your journey.

Step 2: Rewiring – Heal & replace limiting beliefs

Through coaching, exercises, and guided practices, you’ll transcend your inner critic and build increasing self-trust.

Step 3: Authentic Success – Live life on your own terms

With a deep understanding & confidence in your values, you’ll create a life that FEELS good, not just looks good. You'll live based on alignment, not approval.

You’ve spent your life chasing success, but you still feel like it’s never enough. Transcend The Tiger™ helps Asian-Americans overcome imposter syndrome, perfectionism, guilt & shame from high-pressure upbringings. Through our program, which incorporates principles from Buddhism, you’ll stop seeking approval and start feeling confident, worthy, and in control of your own success—on your terms. You'll be able to access peace & sufficiency, regardless of external conditions, and from that place, naturally excel and express who you were meant to be.

Start Your Healing Journey

Do You Feel Like No Matter How Much
You Achieve, It’s Never Enough?

“Toni is what you want in a coach.

Growing up in a high-pressure family (such as Tiger Parents) can leave lasting emotional scars.

You might…

It’s not your fault. These patterns were taught to you. But you don’t have to stay trapped in them.

"Toni radiates
love and light.

It’s Time to Transcend the Tiger.

You are already enough. Now, let's help you feel it...

"She’s been through it all, and she’s the real deal.

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