“I loved the Tiger community! I initially was hesitant to open up, but the warmth, vulnerability, and genuineness of Toni and the rest of the group helped me feel comfortable to share more about myself, and my challenges. I appreciated that Toni really listened carefully and put a lot of presence, effort, and energy into supporting us and remembering even specific little details, analyzing and drawing new conclusions and ideas we wouldn’t have thought of on our own. I felt extremely seen and heard. It felt like seeing myself and my behaviors in the mirror in the other people of the group, and it was healing on a new level, even after years of therapy and working on myself in other ways. I highly recommend this program!”

Toni radiates love and light. Her incredible kindness, inspiration, compassion, and empathy make her an amazing mentor, cheerleader, and confidante to have in your corner. With her guidance and unwavering support, you can unlock your fullest potential! Our sessions together always left me feeling safe, understood, and energized. During our session together, I experienced several “aha moments,” gaining newfound clarity on my next steps. Toni’s honesty, attentiveness, keen observations, and creative problem-solving offer invaluable insights, helping me see beyond challenges and discover endless possibilities. With newfound confidence, I took action and witnessed tangible results in less than a week!"

“Working with Dr. Toni has been a truly transformative experience. She brings such a gentle, healing energy to her work, helping me feel safe and supported during our sessions. We processed deep childhood traumas that had been unhealed, allowing me to feel more grounded in who I am. What I appreciate most about our sessions is how they gave me the confidence to step away from my 9-5 job and transition into entrepreneurship. It was a scary moment in my life, but with Dr. Toni’s guidance, I was able to take bold, courageous steps, even when they went against what my parents had hoped for me. I particularly loved how Dr. Toni understood my background with my overprotective, high-expectation parents, and created a space where I could truly be myself and move toward my highest aspirations.“

As a neurodivergent, highly sensitive, nerdy, overweight, anxious, people-pleaser, I had always struggled with belonging and twisted myself to fit in with my family.

It wasn't until I hit rock bottom in my 30s that I realized I couldn't keep that up anymore.

It's been a brutal path going from A+ Ivy League doctor to a "loser" & "failure" in my family's eyes, even to this day. But it has been so worth it. Being able to finally be my true self & break our ancestral trauma cycle by not passing on pain, fear, resentment, retaliation, or dysfunctional love.

I'm now here to pass on my lessons as a nomadic cartoonist, spiritual teacher, and holistic healer to as many people as I can. I hope to empower you to break free too to unconditional peace & joy, and honor all that you were meant to be.

Step 1: Awareness – Recognize the toxic patterns keeping you stuck

Take a free quiz, read my book, attend a workshop, or join the Transcend The Tiger™ program to start your journey.

Step 2: Rewiring – Heal & replace limiting beliefs

Through coaching, exercises, and guided practices, you’ll transcend your inner critic and build increasing self-trust.

Step 3: Authentic Success – Live life on your own terms

With a deep understanding & confidence in your values, you’ll create a life that FEELS good, not just looks good. You'll live based on alignment, not approval.

You’ve spent your life chasing success, but you still feel like it’s never enough. Transcend The Tiger™ helps Asians overcome imposter syndrome, perfectionism, toxic shame, guilt & confusion from high-pressure upbringings, to discover & root into authentic, thriving careers, relationships, health & lifestyles. Incorporating principles from Buddhism, you’ll stop seeking approval and start feeling confident, worthy, and in control of your own success—on YOUR terms. You'll be able to access unconditional joy, peace & sufficiency, regardless of external circumstances, and from that place, naturally excel and express who you were meant to be.

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Do You Feel Like No Matter How Much
You Achieve, It’s Never Enough?

"Even after years of therapy..."

Growing up in a high-pressure family (such as Tiger Parents) can leave lasting emotional scars.

You might…

It’s not your fault. These patterns were taught to you. And they CAN be unlearned.

"Toni radiates
love and light.

"Working with Dr. Toni has been a truly transformative experience."

It’s Time to Transcend the Tiger.

You are already enough. We'll help you feel & remember who you are.

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